Hosting

I am happy to host our date in an upscale hotel for an additional fee, added to your deposit.

Otherwise, whether in London, Dubai, New York, or elsewhere, I am delighted to visit you in your 5 star hotel.

Screening

For all new suitors, screening is mandatory. Please submit either a recent reference from a reputable independent companion.

If it’s your first time with a companion, a ID and LinkedIn/work website will suffice to secure our date.

NDA

Although I treat any date as though an NDA is in place, I have signed NDAs in the past and will be happy to do so again. Please send it through at least 24 hours in advance to allow ample time for a read through.

Envelope

Please present the balance in the first few moments of our meeting in an unmarked envelope, or in a gift bag if we’re meeting in public.

Alternatively, you may prefer to pay the full sum in advance. In this case, please leave ample time so I am able to confirm that I have received the fee before commencing the date.

Cleanliness

Showers, neat grooming and minty fresh breath are the best ways to start a date on a high note.

Once we get back to the hotel room together after a dinner or an outing, we’d both freshen up - including mouthwash and shower (maybe together?).

Extended dates

Extended dates require 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep, and an hour or two of me time (for a workout, a coffee, a face mask). Additionally, a separate bed for sleeping to make sure we both get quality rest - though I might be sneaking into your room for morning cuddles. I do appreciate being offered my own room during the booking process. For extended dates beyond 24 hours, my own separate room is required for we can both get the rest we need to be at our best.

Boundaries

I reserve the right to decline to participate in anything I am not enjoying. This means you can be sure that whatever we do end up doing together, I am enthusiastically enjoying.

In the extraordinary event I feel emotionally or physically unsafe, I reserve the right to end the date with no refund in such a case.

Cancellation policy

Dates can be rescheduled once within 30 days with sufficient notice. If you’re unable to reschedule and must cancel less than 7 days before the date, consideration is due in full.

If you cancel with more than 7 days in advance and unable to reschedule, the 50% deposit serves as the cancellation fee.

Consideration

Consideration is to be paid in USD/GBP, however tips are accepted and appreciated in all currencies.

Deposit

A 50% deposit is due within 24 hours of communication to secure the date, payable via BTC, or Wise (bank transfer or card).

Review

The expectation of privacy and discretion extends both ways: I have a strict no-review policy.

Etiquette: best practices for seeing any companion

Lateness

Please give as much notice as possible: I will do my best to accommodate moving the start time by half an hour or even an hour if my schedule permits. If you’re unexpectedly running late last minute, please let me know via text so I know to wait for you, and don’t stress! But please understand that the duration paid for will start at the agreed upon time, not when you arrive.

First impressions

The best way to make a great first impression is a detailed intro (I want to get to know you), screening, deposit in less than four emails, gentlemanly and considerate behaviour, great hygiene, an itinerary (if we’re going on an extended date), and of course any tokens of appreciation like tips or gifts from my wishlist are greatly appreciated.

Discretion

Anything discussed during our time together, including any personal information about our lives, careers, or location, remains in strict confidence between you and I.

Should we ever meet in a social setting, you can expect me to be a total stranger in honour of our confidentiality.

Incall

For incall dates, please don’t overstay beyond our date: if you’re feeling like spending more time together, please either extend the date or better yet, book a second date before you leave.

Keeping in touch

My rates are for my time during our date only. If you’d like to keep in touch between dates, please discuss an arrangement, or if you’d like communication beyond scheduling: please send it with a gift or tip.